Thursday, April 11, 2013

Work Related

So today at work one of the local priests asked me this joke today:

"How do you make God laugh?", he asked.  
"I have no idea, there must be a few different ways... why?" said I. 
"Tell him what you're going to do tomorrow." 

I have a response for him for next time.

"Do you know how to make God smile?" 
"How?"
"Thank him for today." 

Do you want  God to laugh, or smile in your direction right this moment? I would rather have him smile, and believe me when I say that I will do something tomorrow, that it will happen. Sure, some things are set in stone, like appointments and meals, but what about those promises that I said I would do when I was in trouble?
I said that I would do that piece of homework tomorrow... does He believe me? When I was hurting and said that if He took away the pain I would pray every night, did He believe me? If tomorrow, something were to happen and I make another empty promise, will He believe me then as well?
God's love is everlasting. He gives love like He would with charity. Charity is what we give others that we don't believe deserve, but we give it to them anyways.
Do you want to receive Charity from Him, or do you want to receive His love? Do you not want to receive His true love, or do you want to receive love that you don't deserve?
The priest today truly gave me a lesson to learn that I can carry with me for a long time. In one short riddle, I learned more today about my actions than a lecture from a professor.

Tuesday, April 9, 2013

Behind You (2)

Sunshine Daisies Butter Mellow 
I have always known that fellow 
I have had that one wish 
That I would get that kiss 
From you, yes that's true
Soon I'll say that I love you 
If you say, that again 
I'll say you're more than a best friend 
And that is exactly true 
'Cause that's how I've always known you

Monday, April 8, 2013

Preppy & Pink

Today, after a lovely swim, I decided to go with a bit of a preppy look! I saw this in my favorite source of outfitting... a magazine!

This was probably being sold for around $80, but as ya'll know me, I can do better!

Grey sweater: $12 
Pink shirt:      $  7
Black pants:   $ 10
Uggs:             $12
Jewelry:         $1 
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Sold for:        $42 

HOWEVER: Keep in mind that many of these pieces are worn multiple times in multiple fashionable poses! Why? Cause the only time I ever buy something is when I know that I can wear it with three other items in my always-getting-smaller closet!

Saturday, April 6, 2013

Ghost Story

"I'm not cheating, I'm not cheating, I'm not cheat... Oh my gawd ...."

I was back at the coffee house. I had an adventure that I wanted to go on, one that I had not gone on in a very long while.  Jack was closing up, again. I waited until all of the regulars, the people who knew me had already left before I returned... in a new outfit.

"Hey, uh, Jack... I changed my mind. Are you still free tonight?" Alright, I was still sounding desperate but at least my voice didn't waver this time.

"For you Nicole, I'll be free any time you want me." Oh gawd, that wink, and charismatic tug of his lopsided grin when he smiled... Oh please, I can't fall for him, I was with Rascal!

"Well, what time do you want me to stop by again? I can come back after you close up?"
"Naw, you sit your pretty little tush right there and we'll be ready to go in about 15 minutes. You don't mind that I smell like coffee when we go out, do you?"
Coffee? Coffee? It's only my favorite smell in the entire world! "Not at all!"

Jack wiped down the tables and chairs, refilled the canisters sitting on the counters and shooed the last of the customers out of the shop. It was only 7 p.m. but the coffee shops closed early around here, no one really wandered around after 7:30 anyways, no one ever liked the dark in this town.  When we first moved in Rascal was warned to keep an eye on me after dark, apparently there was a town superstition that a vengeful spirit was wandering the roads looking for his murdered mistress and wife. Or maybe it was just the mistress. I'm not one for fairy tales or ghost stories so I didn't pay attention.

Long story short, one of the original town founders, George Trian married a pretty little blond waif like beautynot much older than 15 from a few towns over and she died in childbirth. Poor thing. Well, he didn't waste any time finding someone to take care of his little girl and remarried.  So it's told is that he married the little girls older step sister, Belinda, who really wasn't that pretty. She was the maid of the family, and was never home when someone came to call for her hand so she never got married until her younger sister died. Well, she ended up raising her dead sisters daughter. Now since he has a woman at home that he doesn't really want, raising a beautiful little girl that he doesn't know how to raise, he decided to leave the town.  As the town founder, that is a little difficult, since everyone knows your name and your story.  Trian left behind his second wife and child and headed East, towards the mountain villages when the daughter, Vanessa turned 4.
Years passed and Trian never returned. In the meantime Trian's little daughter grew up and became the spitting image of her mother, much to the annoyance of her aunt/step mother. When she turned 16, Vanessa decided to head out and find her father. Knowing that he headed East, she headed out herself, alone. It just so happened that Trian decided to head home and see how the town that he helped found was doing and headed West. Halfway between the two towns father and daughter met at dusk and camped across the road from each other, both unaware that the other was there.  George got up in the middle of the night to do his business and wandered across the road to where Vanessa lay. Finding her laying there, her blond hair illuminated by the moon, curled under an aging blanket that once adorned his wedding bed, Train became frightened. It does not take much for a cheating man to become spooked. He believed that since he fell in love with the other woman, Clarissa from the other town, that his beautiful first wife had come to haunt him after he left Clarissa's village.
And so, George killed Vanessa in her sleep. None would have been the wise if he had headed East that very morning. However, being a foolish man, he headed West, back to his first town. Everyone at that point had been looking for Vanessa, not knowing that she had headed East and were shocked when George had entered the town.  They pleaded with him asking if they had seen the girl, small, waif like, blond hair, young, and George became frightened. He repeated three times, "No, I have not seen the girl that you seek." Belinda heard him state this three times and took him home. She sat him down and searched his clothes, his hair, and his shoes for a sign that he had indeed been cheating. She found on his backside, one of Vanessa's long blond hairs. She became furious believing that this hair belonged to his mistress, who in truth was not blond, but lost in time and legend, and struck George down. The townsfolk hearing the trouble rushed to the house and saw Belinda with the weapon and George dead on the ground, and lost no time in sentencing to a hanging until death. And thus George Trian, his first wife, his second wife Belinda and his daughter Vanessa had died. 
To this day, the townsfolk do not stay outside and keep an eye on their cheating husbands, and the husbands/dates don't dare cheat for fear that Belinda will come and strike them in their sleep.

Being one of the new kids on the block, I didn't believe in such rubbish. The better question was, should I believe in these tales when I myself was about to cheat on Rascal?

Thursday, April 4, 2013

Positive Thoughts!

Isn't this adorable? I actually got this idea off of another site where I get other marvelous ideas! Such as fashion ideas, food & drink ideas and the occasional game! You start this in the beginning of the year, right on the very first of January! When ever something positive happens to you, or when you hear something positive aimed your way, you write it down and toss it in the jar! Then on the last day of the year, December 31st, you open it up and read them all! When ever you're down just take a look at the jar and remember that it is full of POSITIVE things that have happened in your life so far this year! Keep Smiling! ☺

Sunday, March 31, 2013

Listen

"One cannot listen to what you don't say." - Unknown

Do you listen to others? Do you listen to their body language? Do you listen between the lines?

Have you ever found yourself in the position where you want to tell someone something but you just can't find the words to say? I've found myself in that position more than once but more than once I've found my own way out of it. I'll either tell them that I need to talk to them in a different way by moving my body in another direction, or by stating right out "I'm not totally comfortable with that subject."  Usually that works, but when it doesn't then usually the other person figures out that I'm not interested when I walk away.

I like to watch a persons body language to see if they become uncomfortable or too comfortable with the subject at hand. Too uncomfortable... I stop the subject and move on.
No big deal. If they get too comfortable then it's still time to move on. You may not want to hear them spill the beans on everything in their life. They may realize that they said to much and clam up themselves. We are curious creatures, but sometimes what we find out is not what we want to know.

Listen to your communication partner and listen to your own conscious,  If one or the other is telling you that something is wrong, then something probably is. Just keep that in mind.


Oh and Happy Easter Holiday Weekend :)

Saturday, March 30, 2013

Laundry

I'm going to be crass here ladies and gentlemen and talk about my closet. Well, that is nothing new, but I'm talking about a particular drawer in my closet... my drawer of well, 'unmentionables.' To be more specific, my lingerie drawer. To break it down further... MY BRAS. Alright, gentlemen, you can take off now, have a nice day! 
I have always had the problem of not being able to fit into my bras and so lingerie shopping is a bit of a problem for me. I'll try on a few and buy the one that fits the best that particular day and for the rest of the month suffer with the new bra until it is broken in. In this way I also have a tendency to buy the wrong size and I'll suffer because I have no idea what size I really am.

SOLUTION #1: Go to your nearest lingerie store and get your size done! I am aware that JC Penny has the occasional 'bra sizing day' which is convenient. Check the days, or call ahead, the girls at the desk might be more aware of it then I am! The other option that I know does it every day is Victoria's Secret at the mall, particular outlets or maybe there is a size chart on their website! At least once a year I go there and check it out and see whats on sale too!

SOLUTION #2: Buy that absolute perfect size that you know will fit you from now until you decide to stop wearing bras! (Which I think can be at any point in time...) Now take this size and write it on a card and stick it in your purse. Not a bad plan right? Just remember to move that card from purse to purse and you're all set! ALSO with this plan when you get sized at your linguine store use that card that you got from them and stick that in your purse too! 

SOLUTION #3: You have bought your absolute favorite bra and you are all sized and you have your favorite size etc etc ... and now you wear it every day and you sash it everyday. Awesome! One light issue...  you forget what size it is and oh crap... the tag is gone. You no longer know the size of your favorite bra/size because the tag is gone. In my case usually this is because I've washed it so many times and it's now no longer legible. It happens. My solution? I take a sharpie and write in the strap write the size! Brilliant! Now it can't wash off and when it starts to get a little faded  I just touch it up! And now when I go shopping its there and ready for me and I don't need to search my purse again to look for that damn receipt!