Ooops I forgot

It's not usually what you say,
It's usually what you don't say
That matters

It's not usually what you don't do,
It's usually what you do do
That matters

It's not usually what you emotionally show
It's usually what you don't show
That matters

It's not usually where you go
It's usally where you don't go
That matters

Its what you don't say, don't do
Don't show, don't go
That matters.